Updated: 11/25/2008 7:51 AM KSTP.com | Print Story
By: Art Barron

BARRON: Thankful enough to open your house for someone in need?

As we approach Thanksgiving, I think of those who have been laid-off and looking for work. I have some colleagues from a former television station who are going through that right now.

In tough times we band together to help each other out. I have told a close friend if things don't improve for him on the job front, he is welcome to stay with my family until he gets on his feet. What are friends for anyway right? In fact, I tell him he needs to stay at my house. Although he is too proud, it is comforting for him to know that others care enough to help. I know I'd want to hear someone who is close to me to offer the same thing.

Most of us would do that because despite the hussle and bussle of making a buck, and some of the rude encounters we experience, when it comes right down to it, we are a caring people. It's okay to give and not expect anything in return.

Families are having to open their doors to help relatives. Sure there should be rules of the house, curfews, and the like. In tough times, people get tough!

Can there be stress, and occasional clashes even among the best of friends? you bet!  So, while it's great to open your heart and your door to a family member or good friend in need, it's certainly okay to draft some house rules, guidelines, and responsibilities. A friendly pact, so there are no misunderstandings. I know what you're thinking... what happens if the person becomes a slob, gets lazy, and weeks start turning into months.

The length of stay is not the concern with me, overall house health and cleanliness is.

I think it's important to know your friends, their habits, and lifestyles. Obviously you have to responsible yourself, and consider the well being of the rest of your immediate family. I think you know who you would gladly have stay with you. Someone with good character, who keeps a relatively clean house, and is trustworthy.

Have a Happy Thanksgiving : )